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Driving Concerns – How to Know When to Put the Brakes On Elderly Drivers

January 22, 2012 by  
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Driving skills vary from one person to another, and one age bracket to another. However, as people age, their driving does decline, but it doesn’t always mean that across the boards all elderly people will become worse at driving.

Noticing the early warning signs is important. One of the biggest early warnings is getting lost.If not addressed early enough, it can become dangerous for not only your loved one to be on the road, but also for other drivers and families out there.

First it is important to look at the cause of your parent getting lost.  Sit down and talk with your parent about the situation that occurred.

  • Did something along the way distract him/her while driving? Is this the first time it has occurred and was just due to something unusual that day?
  • Find out if they have noticed other moments of forgetfulness that are of concern -  greater than not knowing where they put the car keys?
  • How does your parent feel about driving? Does it feel stressful to them? Can they easily see traffic lights and street signs? Or do they find themselves driving closer and closer, slowing by the sign to see it?
  • If your parent is on more than one consistent medications check with their doctor to see that those medications are not interfering with each other and causing other side effects. Certain medications or combinations of medications can affect senses and reflexes.

Ensuring regular doctor check-ups is important. Getting their eyes, hearing and reflexes checked is vital. Another area of concern could be sleep. Anyone, no matter their age, can appear to be intoxicated when poor sleep is involved. Have their doctor help them establish healthy nighttime sleep conditions to ensure proper rest when driving.

If all of the above has been done and your loved one still gets lost frequently or has other issues when driving, it’s time to make the difficult decision of putting on the brakes and having them turn in their keys. Just because they are no longer able to drive, it doesn’t mean they have to loose their independence. Talk to them about redefining their independence by reframing the situation into a positive form.

AAA has a Senior Drivers Program where you can get driving fitness tips, videos and more, including state License Policies and Practices. They also help with planning for continued mobility (post driving), which is extremely helpful.

Visit: http://www.seniordrivers.org/home/ for more information.

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4 Responses to “Driving Concerns – How to Know When to Put the Brakes On Elderly Drivers”
  1. Robine says:

    This is such an important issue yet very sensitive at the same time. We want everyone to be safe while handling our loved one’s sense of empowerment and independence gracefully. Thank you Lisa for these wonderful tips and insights.

  2. Great ideas for how to talk to you parent about their driving and what to look for. I’m thankful that so many cities have great transit systems so that the elderly (and the rest of us) can continue to be independent and get around town without cars. Denver’s transit system is amazing, so I don’t even drive anymore, because there is no need to. My mother who just moved to Denver to be closer to me is still driving, but is also learning the transit system so that she isn’t dependent on a car. Thanks Lisa!

  3. I remember we had to take the keys away from my grandmother a few years before she had to enter a home. It was very difficult for her to lose that freedom, but so much better to do so prior to something tragic happening. Great tips, Lisa!

  4. So important Lisa for everyone on the road and agree with Robine to handle it with grace and care for the feelings of the elderly person. You just showed us how. thanks
    Lynn

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